April 3, 2005 16:04 | by Nurit Peled-Elhannan
Nurit Peled-Elhannan is an Israeli campaigner against violence against
women. On International Women's Day, March 8, 2005, she gave the following
speech to assembled Members of the European Parliament in Strasbourg.
Thank you for inviting me to this day. It is always an honour and
a pleasure to be here, among you.
However, I must admit I believe you should have invited a Palestinian
woman in my stead, because the women who suffer most from violence
in my county are the Palestinian women. And I would like to dedicate
my speech to Miriam R`aban and her husband Kamal, from Bet Lahiya
in the Gazza strip, whose five small children were killed by Israeli
soldiers while picking strawberries at the family`s strawberry field.
No one will ever stand trial for this murder.
When I asked the people who invited me here why wouldn't they invite
a Palestinian woman the answer was that it would make the discussion
too localized.
I don't know what is non-localized violence. Racism and discrimination
may be theoretical concepts and universal phenomena but their impact
is always local, and real. Pain is local, humiliation, sexual abuse,
torture and death, are all very local, and so are the scars.
It is true unfortunately, that the local violence inflicted on
Palestinian women by the government of Israel and the Israeli army
has expanded around the globe, In fact state violence and army violence,
individual and collective violence, are the lot of Muslim women
today, not only in Palestine but wherever the enlightened western
world is setting its big imperialistic foot. It is violence which
is hardly ever addressed and which is halfheartedly condoned by
most people in Europe and in the USA.
This is because the so-called free world is afraid of the Muslim
womb.
Great France of la liberté, l`égalité et la
fraternité is scared of little girls with head scarfs, Great
Jewish Israel is afraid of the Muslim womb and its ministers call
it a demographic threat. Almighty America and Great Britain are
infecting their respective citizens with blind fear of the muslims,
who are depicted as vile, primitive and bloodthirsty, apart from
their being non-democratic, chauvinistic and mass producers of future
terrorists. This in spite of the fact that the people who are destroying
the world today are not muslim. One of them is a devout Christian,
one is Anglican and one is a non-devout Jew.
I have never experienced the suffering Palestinian women undergo
every day, every hour, I don't know the kind of violence that turn
a woman`s life into constant hell. This daily physical and mental
torture of women who are deprived of their basic human rights and
needs of privacy and dignity, women whose homes are broken in at
any moment of day and night, who are ordered at gunpoint to strip
naked in front of strangers and their own children, whose houses
are demolished, who are deprived of their livelihood and of any
normal family life. This is not part of my personal ordeal. But
I am a victim of violence against women insofar as violence against
children is actually violence against mothers. Palestinian, Iraqi,
Afghan women are my sisters because we are all in the grip of the
same unscrupulous criminals who call themselves leaders of the free
enlightened world and in the name of this freedom and enlightment
rob us of our children. Furthermore, Israeli, American, Italian
and British mothers have been for the most part violently blinded
and brainwashed to such a degree that they cannot realise their
only sisters, their only allies in the world are the muslim Palestinian,
Iraqi or Afghani mothers whose children are killed by our children
or who blow themselves to pieces with our sons and daughters. They
are all mind-infected by the same viruses engendered by politicians.
And the viruses, though they may have various illustrious names
such as Democracy, Patriotism, God., Homeland, are all the same.
They are all part of false and fake ideologies that are meant to
enrich the rich and to empower the powerful.
We are all the victims of mental, psychological and cultural violence
that turn us into one homogenic group of bereaved or potentially
bereaved mothers. Western mothers who are taught to believe their
uterus is a national asset just like they are taught to believe
that the Muslim uterus is an international threat. They are educated
not to cry out: `I gave him birth, I breastfed him, he is mine,
and I will not let him be the one whose life is cheaper than oil,
whose future is of less worth than a piece of land.`
All of us are terrorized by mind-infecting education to believe
all we can do is either pray for our sons to come back home or be
proud of their dead bodies.
And all of us were brought up to bear all this silently, to contain
our fear and frustration, to take prozac for anxiety, but never
hail Mama Courage in public. Never be real Jewish or Italian or
Irish mothers.
I am a victim of state violence. My natural and civil rights as
a mother have been violated and are violated because I have to fear
the day my son will reach his 18th birthday and be taken away from
me to be the game tool of criminals such as Sharon, Bush, Blair
and their clan of bloodthirsty, oil-thirsty, land-thirsty generals.
Living in the world I live in, in the state I live in, in the regime
I live in, I don't dare to offer Muslim women any ideas how to change
their lives. I don't want them to take off their scarves, or educate
their children differently, and I will not urge them to constitute
democracies in the image of Western democracies that despise them
and their kind. I just want to ask them humbly to be my sisters,
to express my admiration for their perseverance and for their courage
to carry on, to have children and to maintain a dignified family
life in spite of the impossible conditions my world in putting them
in. I want to tell them we are all bonded by the same pain, we all
the victims of the same sort of violence even though they suffer
much more, for they are the ones who are mistreated by my government
and its army, sponsored by my taxes.
Islam in itself, like Judaism in itself and Christianity in itself,
is not a threat to me or to anyone. American imperialism is, European
indifference and co-operation is and the Israeli racist and cruel
regime of occupation is. It is racism, educational propaganda and
inculcated xenophobia that convince Israeli soldiers to order Palestinian
women at gun-point to strip in front of their children for security
reasons, it is the deepest disrespect for the other that allows
American soldiers to rape Iraqi women, that gives license to Israeli
jailers to keep young women in inhuman conditions, without necessary
hygienic aids, without electricity in the winter, without clean
water or clean mattresses, and to separate them from their breastfed
babies and toddlers. To bar their way to hospitals, to block their
way to education, to confiscate their lands, to uproot their trees
and prevent them from cultivating their fields.
I cannot completely understand Palestinian women or their suffering.
I don't know how I would have survived such humiliation, such disrespect
from the whole world. All I know is that the voice of mothers has
been suffocated for too long in this war-stricken planet. Mothers`
cry is not heard because mothers are not invited to international
forums such as this one. This I know and it is very little. But
it is enough for me to remember these women are my sisters, and
that they deserve that I should cry for them, and fight for them.
And when they lose their children in strawberry fields or on filthy
roads by the checkpoints, when their children are shot on their
way to school by Israeli children who were educated to believe that
love and compassion are race- and religion-dependent, the only thing
I can do is stand by them and their betrayed babies, and ask what
Anna Akhmatova, another mother who lived in a regime of violence
against women and children, had asked:
Why does that streak of blood rip the petal of your cheek?
See also: http://www.spectrezine.org/MiddleEast/falluja.htm